How To Get A Girl's Attention

Getting a girl's attention is not as easy as what you may be thinking. Imagine if the girl has many suitors and you're just an average among them. Would you still have the guts to catch her attention? If yes, here are six simple tips to help you out.

• Have a status and ambition in life. Research shows that about 70 - 90% of women would easily notice men who live to their ambition beyond their looks. In this time and age, girls are after those who don't only excel in having good looks and great body. For them, its useless noticing a guy who's physically attractive but does not have a goal in life. However, you don't have to be a famous person to get her attention. Just be true to your career and be passionate about it.

• Learn the importance of helping. If you saw a woman carrying something that's too heavy, approach her and say, "let me help you carry that one" or "I'll carry that one for you". This is your best way to prove your worth as a gentleman which is a huge turn-on for her.

• Never act like everyone else. You must have your own identity, even though you may look like a famous celebrity. Most women are strongly believed to have the attitude of getting more attracted with men who can be a dead-ringer for an equally gorgeous person they know. If you have the same looks as that of George Clooney, girls wouldn't mind having second thoughts of going out on a romantic date. However, it's not because you look like George doesn't necessarily you have to act like him.

• Make eye contact with her when exchanging conversations. After every minute of talking, stare at her in a matter of 5 - 10 seconds. Don't forget to grin or smile at her. As her eyes starts to meet yours, she's getting interested in you. Making eye contact also measures the sincerity of your companionship.

• Don't be a "Yes Man" which is only good as a Jim Carrey movie. Live up to challenges by knowing when to say yes and no. Women dig men who love challenges that allow them to give in to what they want. Stand for what you think is believable and raise your self-esteem.

• Make her laugh as much as you make other people laugh.
What if you could seduce any woman you wanted?

I know how hard it can be but you see, as humans, we all have two ways of thinking. Number 1 is using logic or our conscious minds. No. 2 is using emotion or our subconscious minds.

The great thing about seducing women is that they are HARD WIRED to follow their emotional thoughts and feelings that are the same across ALL women... They cannot help it. That's why so many women fall for the same "ass hole" guys.

How to get your Ex Boyfriend back

Just a while ago, the two of you were together, happy and going strong. You were always the best couple for your friends, you had great love life and felt complete in each other’s company. But what happened suddenly? Why did the relationship go kaput? It hurts to think about the lovely days and your very loving partner. You wish if the same days and the same partner return to you. His exit from your life looks like the end of the world, but it doesn't have to, because you can have him back. How? Read on. 
 

Stop all communication: It is best to stop sending any messages to him; stop giving him calls or beg him to come back to your life. Do not make any contact with him directly or indirectly. Even if you see him any where around you, do not go to him and start showering your love on him. Do not create a scene in public by crying and asking him to come back. If you do this, he will most likely start hating you and would never turn to you again.

 

Ignore Him: It is best to do what he would not expect from you, that is ignore him. This will make it easier for him to talk to you when you bump into each other. Ignoring means not following him, even if you follow, he should not get to know about it. If you happen to see him somewhere, ignore him. Let him come to you to talk. Do not look at him or go to him. When you do this, he would be forced to think that you have some one else in your life. Or he would think what’s wrong with you and why aren’t you contacting him. This will also make you more approachable as he will feel at ease. He knows you are not going to do any emotional drama, so he can meet and talk to you.

 

When you bother your ex by following and begging him for attention, he tends to think negative about you and he is forced to justify all the reasons for leaving you. But if you do the opposite, he will be reminded of all the good times spent together. You decide what you want!

 

Go back to your friends: Many girls give less time to their friends after they get into a relationship. So it is time to revive the old friendship. Go out and meet them and do not discuss what happened to your relationship. If your friends ask, just say that you will discuss about it some other day and not today. Friends always stand by you, so you need to maintain your relationship with them. If you decide to narrate your break-up story to them, you can even get some support from them. They may advise you but it is better to moderate the advices according to your situation and strategy.

 

Start pursuing your old passions: Remember the last time you painted anything? Or the last time you opened your cookery classes notebook and made something? If you had been ignoring your passions, this is the time to get back to them. Start doing whatever interests you. Pursue your passions so that they keep you engaged and divert your thoughts. Staying at home and doing nothing only brings back the memories and makes you cry. So better get engaged in doing something that really interests you.

 

Once you get busy with your new routine, you need to assess yourself. Do you still miss him? Do you still want him back or are you enjoying your new life, new independence?  May be by the time you answer these questions, your ex comes back to you and if he doesn’t, you have learned to live without him without any regrets.

 

Meeting your ex: Since all this while you didn’t make any moves to meet him or contact him, he would be ready to meet you without any fear. When you meet him, remember to not do whatever you did when you were with him. Show him the changed you. Show him you are better off without him. Do all this not by using harsh words but by your expressions and attitude. Maintain distance with him and be a little mysterious. Let him run after you.

 

Decide what you want: When he comes back to you and shows some friendliness, you need to decide if you really want him back. Be honest about your feelings and don’t just say no to yourself because your ego doesn’t allow. If you still feel for him, you can give your relationship another shot. When together, make sure you don’t repeat the same mistakes.

 

Follow these simple tips and you will have your ex boyfriend back in no time.

Dating Tips for Men

Women are difficult to understand and this makes dating really tough and sometimes frustrating for men. What does a woman actually want? Is it love, compliments, money or just some time pass? What is it? What preparations do men need when meeting a chic for some good time pass or a relationship? Riflebirds will tell you all.
When approaching a girl, forget those old and cheesy pick up lines – “I think I have seen you somewhere” or “Do we know each other?” Girls are very smart. They know it before a guy approaches them. So be smarter. Look straight into her eyes and gently touch her arm. Your eyes and the touch will do all the magic. But remember not to get slapped back. If you think she is not those simple kinds, leave her alone.
If you think a girl is really hot and is approached by many men then simply ignore her, not literally but pretend to ignore her when she is around. She will start paying more attention to you and may even start running after you.

Remember to compliment her when you meet. If they are fake, make them appear genuine else you will look like liar.

When looking for a serious relationship, do not go and ask her to be friends. Create moments and chances of interaction with her while being in a group. This will automatically make you her friend. Gradually you can increase your friendship and take it to the next level, depending upon her liking for you.

Remember to shave and use a good smelling perfume when you meet her. Also, the clothes you wear should be well ironed and shoes polished. Do not dress up formally and also do not be too casual. Look easy going and relaxed. Make the girl comfortable by your relaxed attitude.

During your conversations, do not bring up sensitive issues like religions or politics. If you ask about family, remember to be very careful as she may or may not have a parent or a sibling. Be polite in your conversations and do not become aggressive or defensive while discussing any issue.

While she is talking, listen to her and do make eye-contacts. Girls like to be heard. If you keep listening to her patiently, chances are that she may like to meet you again and again.

Maximize eye contact and minimize looking at her breast. Once she considers you desperate, she would never like to meet you again.
Girls like guys with good sense of humour. Make her laugh and crack jokes but not too much, else she will think you are a clown. Cheer her so that she turns to you all the time.


Keep some distinction between friendship and love. If you continue to listen to all her instructions and keep following her, chances are that she will put you in the category of friends. To avoid this, show to her that you have special feelings for her.
A girl will not give you a call after the first date. She will instead wait for you to respond. If you have liked her, respond at the earliest and add some compliments too. She will be forced to meet you again.

Compliment her qualities instead of her attributes. Compliment her patience, her writing skills, her attitude towards work or parents instead of complimenting her looks, beauty and style. She will feel like an achiever in life and increase your chances of becoming her partner.

When you become quite friendly with her, give funny answers to her endless and serious questions. She will like your sense of humour.

Break the traditional rule of red roses. Gift her some wild flowers from a good florist. She will like the thought and time you gave to the gift.

Do not start asking her about how and what she feels for you during your first few dates. Asking this too early will make her run away. Wait for her to express it herself through actions or words.

Keep yourself up-to-date with current affairs. Women like intelligent men. So you must have answers to her questions and during discussions.

Avoid phone calls when with her. Rejecting calls before her will make her feel special.
Insist on paying the restaurant bill else the girl will think you are broke.

How to collect a Girl's contact number

If you find somebody interesting enough to stay in touch but hesitate in asking for her mobile number, then you are not the only one. Most men face the same problem. What is the big deal in giving away a stupid phone number? If she doesn’t like, she may choose not to take the call. But women are women. They like to play such games.
There may be times when women are dying to give away their numbers but there is nobody to ask for, may be because of reluctance or for whatsoever reason. Women take pride in being asked for their number. So they treat it as a chasing game and make men run after them or contact some common friend to get the number. Well well! Women must know that men have hundreds of ways to find out the number of any woman. But they prove that they are men and accept the challenge of asking for the number on their own.

To make this challenge easy, we offer you a strong tip that will help you in getting the contact information of women instantly; in fact it will make women give the number to you on their own. You don’t have to fight for it. Interesting, isn’t it?

What is the number one thing that women look in men? Any guesses? It’s Smartness. So you have to be smart in this act. What are the other characteristics that women like in men? More guesses please! Okay it’s spontaneity, sense of humour and intelligence.

When you first meet her, let’s say in a bar, you find her interesting. She is beautiful, intelligent, staying alone and most importantly SINGLE. You want to meet her again but how would you ask her for her number to fix up the plan? Good question! Now do this-

Show her your pleasant personality and find out what is the common thing that interests both of you. Suppose it is reading novels. Ask her for her favourite one and try to borrow. If she is willing to give it to you, just keep the fingers crossed. Don’t jump to ask her for her number. Keep interacting. May be even you have some novel to share with her. Oh great! Works well! Keep interacting. Now it’s time to say bye. The moment you say bye to her, just turn and say, “Hey! How am I supposed to contact you for the novel? Take my number and give me a call on this whenever you find time.” She would type your number on her mobile and when she is done, ask her to give you a missed call. Great! You have her number now.

Another idea is to ask her for her e-mail address. This is quite harmless since girls know they can block you anytime if they don’t like you. Now the point to remember here is that while you ask her for the e-mail id, do not write it yourself. Give her your mobile and ask her to type it. While she is doing it, just ask her, “Please also write your contact number.” You will get her number too. Even if she writes the wrong number, at least you will have her e-mail id. This method is a bit psychological. When she is okay with giving her e-mail id and is writing it down, she will not be in a position to say NO to phone number. Though there are chances of she giving away the wrong number but chances are that you will be successful in getting the right one.

One very important point to remember here is facial expressions. Do not show sudden excitement when you get her number. Keep you expressions subtle and stable. Though you may feel inner joy and victory when you get her number, you don’t need to show it to her that you have just finished a task.

Once you get the number, do not start pouring in messages and calls. Have patience and wait for some time before you send your first message to her. She will respond more happily than she would respond when you send her message immediately after meeting her. If she would be desperate to have some know-how from your end, she would not wait for your message for long and try to contact you herself.

So guys all the best! May you get lots and lots of mobile numbers. Only thing is that you must not misuse them.

How to Stop and Talk to a Girl on Street

Well women are surrounded by needy men who always want the approval of girls before they do anything. Contrary to what men think and the way they behave, women need confident men who take some action.

If you want to talk to a girl walking on the street, you need to speak something that forces her to respond to you. If you are an average looking man and you try to act very smart, she will not even look at you or simply laugh at you. But if you say something with confidence without making her feel that you are talking to her because she looks good, she would definitely respond.

 

Say “Hi” to her and she will most likely look at you and then ignore you. Now say, “Ma’am are you scared of good-looking guys? Don’t worry! You will not fall for me!” Now, the fact that you're an average-looking guy really makes something like this work.

 

Well most guys don’t get this idea and they try hard to impress girls for their one look. But you have done it in just one go. You communicated to the pretty lady that you are not afraid of talking to good-looking girls and can make funny comments like that. This essentially also communicates that your sense of humour is good, which is a quality liked by most females.

 

Beautiful women come across guys who are boring and needy. These guys are not appealing to women. When someone shows his humour, personality and some strength, it really stands out.

 

So you get to chat with her a little. But do not act like a normal guy who would not leave her till she gets up and says she is getting late. Chat for a little while and then stand up to leave. When you leave her in between, you will do what most guys don’t do and thus act differently. She will instantly feel attracted towards you. She will doubt her beauty which couldn’t make you stay for a little longer. But she doesn’t know you are playing the trick.

 

When you get up to move, instantly ask her for her number and say you will call her at the end of the week to make some plan to meet. She wouldn’t say No to it and would instantly give her number. If you think she wouldn’t give it to you, just give her a paper and pen and ask her to write down her e-mail address. Women don’t have any problem in giving away e-mail address because they know they can block the person anytime.

 

Most men do not understand this technique and the moment they get the number of a girl, they flood her phone with messages and calls. If they have the e-mail id, they would try to chat with them. But such men are not liked by women.

 

If you make her wait for a few days, she would know you are genuine and would love to reply to your mail or message. Do not act needy and you will surely win.

 

Guys, it is actually possible to approach women, start conversations, and get phone numbers and emails within minutes. You can do it. You just need to act smart!

How to approach a Girl

Approaching girls is amongst the few things that make men actually sweat. Of course some of the guys find it easy approaching the girl sitting next to them without any fear of rejection, but there are many who find this as the toughest job in the matters of the heart. Not all guys know the tricks to approach girls but almost all girls know your ‘approaching’ tricks already. So come with new tricks guys!

Why is that approaching a girl is is so difficult for boys or for that matter even men? Approaching a girl actually comes with the ‘Fear of Rejection’. It is this fear that keeps men from going and saying something to the girls. It is so strong among most men that they are even tongue tied and when they try to say some thing, they end up uttering something stupid without even realizing what they are saying. The trick therefore is to know how to approach girls using a method that is creative and is unknown to the girl.

 

When approaching a girl, the first thing to remember is to accept rejection and move on. There is nothing like a fixed formula to approach a girl, but certain ways that can make your chances of rejection really minimal. But in case you face rejection, you must move on. Learn to cope with them because taking rejection in your stride is a sign of maturity.

 

No matter how advanced ways guys use, most girls usually fail them as they are usually updated on the latest approaching techniques used by guys. So if you are updated with the latest techniques, even she is updated with latest tricks doing the rounds. So what can you do about it? May be just do something that surprises her or exhibit a positive body language that works in your favour!

 

Body language is as important as using the right words. While approaching girls, remember to not have drooping shoulders or be nervous else your chances of getting rejected would become higher. This is because women like confident men who they can depend on. At the same time, do not be over confident or act very smart. When you show her positive body language, she will also give you some indication showing her interest in you, like laughing at your jokes or touching you lightly while laughing. If nothing like this happens, you must understand that she is not interested and not harass her with repeated indications of approaching her.

 

The best thing that works is being yourself because that makes you confident and you really don’t have to act. Appreciate her and compliment her because you know every girl loves to be complimented but don’t overdo that because as mentioned earlier ‘girls know all your tricks.’

How to Attract the Most Beautiful Women Sexually

Ever wondered why a beautiful woman is almost always out of your reach? Why a normal looking guy has a beautiful girlfriend and the handsome hunk is single? Do you think beautiful girls will not accept your proposal because you are not good looking, short heighted, not rich or because of other reasons? 

Have you ever wondered why you look at a woman and develop feelings for her? And why is it that she looks at you, meets you and still does not feel the same for you? If you have all these questions in mind, we have the answers for all of them.

 

Before we answer your questions and clear your doubts, you must develop a positive feeling in your heart and mind about how good you look and how easily you can have any girl in your life. Once you start believing in this, you may begin reading the rest of the article.

 

So let’s begin by analyzing how men and women think. It is said that men think from mind and women from heart. To some extent this is true. But when it comes to dating, attraction is different for men and women. We can say that men like what they see and women like what can never be seen but only felt. So when you see a beautiful girl, you start liking her, start admiring her beautiful long legs, her eyes, her perfect figure but when she ignores you, you feel you are physically not attractive to have such a beautiful girl in your life. The fact is that women believe in the personality of a man. They do not go by how tall you are or how rich you are but how good is your personality, how good is your sense of humour. Ofcourse money and looks do matter for females but not to the extent it matters for men.

 

Your qualities judge whether or not the woman will be sexually aroused by you. Women get turned on when they like the personality traits of men. Show your intelligence, your sense of humour, your spontaneity and your strength – she will without any doubt fall for you. To sustain her attraction for you, you must maintain the same behavior.

 

So what we learn here is that it is possible for you to have any girl in your life through your personality traits. While men get attracted to women physically by just looking at them, women take time and get attracted to men through interaction.