Have you ever been in a situation where you met a woman, the flirting was going good, and you could swear up and down that things were going to lead back to the bedroom and she suddenly switched gears on you and you knew that you were not going to get any action at all? One of the most confusing things that can happen to a guy is to be getting along great with a woman, thinking that it is going to lead to some place where you and her will become intimately involved and then to watch it devolve to a point where you are nothing more than a platonic guy in her eyes.
It happens all of the time, it's why most men who go out to clubs looking to pick up women end up going home alone or end up at the diner with their friends, talking about the girl that they let get away. Funny thing is, it does not always have to play out like that. In almost all of those kinds of situations, the main missing ingredient was sexual attraction. And not really just sexual attraction, but how much sexual attraction is there.
See, she can feel sexual attraction towards you, and she can think that you are a fun guy to be with, but that is not always enough to be able to take things to another level where you can become intimate with a woman. If that was all that you needed to do, I am sure you and most guys out there would be getting 'lucky' a lot more often than they really are.
What causes a woman to feel that sexual attraction?
This is something that most guys want to hear a blanket, one size fits all kind of answer, something that applies to all women, but that is not really the truth. Every woman has their own things that make them feel that way. For some women, it can be very superficial. They might feel that sexual attraction when they see a guy who looks a certain way. For some women, it's all about the feeling that they get when they are around a guy.
How do you know what she responds to when it comes to sexual attraction?
This is where you really have to learn how to observe a woman, to see what little clues she is giving off, and to see whether or not she is more focused on what she feels or what she sees. This can be the make or break for you, it can determine where the night leads to. For example, if you are talking to a woman, and she is more driven by what she sees and you don't have the look that thrills her, your chances are not very good at all. On the other hand, if the looks thing is not what drives her the most, then you can easily talk your way into her bedroom by making her feel the right things.
Without sexual attraction, all you are is a friend...
It does not matter how much she flirts with you, because a lot of women will have fun flirting with a guy that they know they are never going to sleep with. There has to be a really strong sense of sexual attraction if you are going to end up in bed with her, or else you will be that friend she flirts with, but does nothing more than that. And the only way that you can really get there is to learn what it is that she responds to and using that to your advantage to move things in the RIGHT direction.
It happens all of the time, it's why most men who go out to clubs looking to pick up women end up going home alone or end up at the diner with their friends, talking about the girl that they let get away. Funny thing is, it does not always have to play out like that. In almost all of those kinds of situations, the main missing ingredient was sexual attraction. And not really just sexual attraction, but how much sexual attraction is there.
See, she can feel sexual attraction towards you, and she can think that you are a fun guy to be with, but that is not always enough to be able to take things to another level where you can become intimate with a woman. If that was all that you needed to do, I am sure you and most guys out there would be getting 'lucky' a lot more often than they really are.
What causes a woman to feel that sexual attraction?
This is something that most guys want to hear a blanket, one size fits all kind of answer, something that applies to all women, but that is not really the truth. Every woman has their own things that make them feel that way. For some women, it can be very superficial. They might feel that sexual attraction when they see a guy who looks a certain way. For some women, it's all about the feeling that they get when they are around a guy.
How do you know what she responds to when it comes to sexual attraction?
This is where you really have to learn how to observe a woman, to see what little clues she is giving off, and to see whether or not she is more focused on what she feels or what she sees. This can be the make or break for you, it can determine where the night leads to. For example, if you are talking to a woman, and she is more driven by what she sees and you don't have the look that thrills her, your chances are not very good at all. On the other hand, if the looks thing is not what drives her the most, then you can easily talk your way into her bedroom by making her feel the right things.
Without sexual attraction, all you are is a friend...
It does not matter how much she flirts with you, because a lot of women will have fun flirting with a guy that they know they are never going to sleep with. There has to be a really strong sense of sexual attraction if you are going to end up in bed with her, or else you will be that friend she flirts with, but does nothing more than that. And the only way that you can really get there is to learn what it is that she responds to and using that to your advantage to move things in the RIGHT direction.