How to Satisfy a Girl in Bed

Many men have problems with how to satisfy women in bed. To date, thousands and thousands of books and magazines have been published, articles have been written and self-help videos have been sold for the sole purpose of guiding men in pleasuring women in bed. This article aims to do the same.

The first thing to remember in making love is that women have different erogenous zones, what works for one may not necessarily work for the other. For the sake of discussion, erogenous zones are areas in the body that has heightened sensitivity, which when stimulated properly can lead to production of erotic sensations and sexual excitement. Stroking, kissing and licking these areas will most certainly convey the message that you indeed know how to satisfy women in bed. Generally, women have various erogenous zones in their body and the lips, the neck, behind the ears, the small of her back, the breasts, and of course the clitoris are just some of them.

For the time being let's forget the erogenous zones and let's focus on setting the mood right for the lady, something that every man should know before even starting any form of physical foreplay-- although this too is key to getting her completely satisfied. Remember, foreplay starts even before the two of you are in the bedroom, in fact, it's a must to hike the romantic gestures up a notch a day or two before the rendezvous to get her to want you the way you do.

Flowers, chocolates and expensive perfumes are some of the tried and tested gifts that a man can give to a woman to set her mood right for lovemaking. Creative and surprising gestures such as this will not only turn your woman on, it will make her open up to more of your ideas while in bed. So go ahead, don't be stingy and pile on the trinkets, I assure you, you will be richly rewarded for it.

So now you are at her place or yours, dinner's been served and enjoyed and you're just getting ready to woo her into bed. The next thing to do is to make sure she is relaxed by giving her a gentle back massage. Wine and some sweet music will work just as well, with soft lights and perhaps some carefully lit scented candles in the background.

The vagina may have all the sensitive parts that a woman needs to achieve orgasm but do not forget the other parts as well as these are key in showing her you certainly know how to satisfy women in bed. By kissing her neck, lips, back and of course her breasts, you not only prolong the foreplay but you also increase the chances of her coming and that's what we're after, right? Start with her lips and then go down slowly to the arch of her neck and behind her ears. Also, do not forget to spend a little more time on her nipples as these are one of the most sensitive parts of her body and will definitely get her sighing for more.

While you're doing all this to your woman, chances are you will want to penetrate her immediately. At this point the worst thing you could do is follow your urges. Try and shift your focus and keep your mind on pleasuring her first, this way you ensure that she comes at the same time that you do.