Romance or Friendship? 3 EASY Ways to Find True Love (Even If You're JUST Friends Right Now)
Is it ROMANTIC or are you just simply friends? How can you tell what he's REALLY thinking, without having to beg, sound desperate or bother his friends? Are you sick and tired of trying to read his body language, or guess what his little code phrases mean, or even simply trying to intuit his intentions WITHOUT having to come right and ask what's up? And can you truly find love through friendship, or do you need to PUSH, bother or beg him for answers straight out of the gate to know where "this" is going... right away?
In this article we are going to take a quick and easy look at a few simple ways to help a friendship BLOSSOM into a full fledged romance, and figure out what he REALLY wants, all at the very same time. Curious to know more? Continue reading as we take a closer look below!
Allow yourself to be VULNERABLE (it really DOESN'T hurt, I promise!)
Take some chances, and open up a bit. You don't have to embarrass yourself, look desperate or even be overly aggressive to let someone know you are interested in taking things in a more interesting direction. The truth is, he'll most likely be flattered... and appreciative that you find him attractive in a romantic way. But don't do this in a haphazard way... or you'll find yourself TOO vulnerable, making "in the moment" choices you may BOTH regret later!
Relax Your Expectations
Don't push for answers. If you get back a response, either verbally or physically that you DON'T expect or anticipate, don't jump to conclusions or assumptions about what that may (or may not) mean. The truth is, some of MY best and most memorable relationships started slowly... and from friendships that seemed "locked in plutonic" before they ever bloomed into real romance. Remember, if he's worth getting to know in an intimate way... the BEST path to passion is through an evolving friendship as well.
Do NOT play games (or buy into the BULL)
Be honest, open and genuine about how you feel. There is no "time limit" to tell someone something that comes from the heart. There is no rule-book... or blueprint for taking a friendship to the next level. The truth is, if you stay honest, open, and don't obsess about the relationship, you'll find that doors open that you may NOT have realized were there... and amazing things can happen, once they do!
In this article we are going to take a quick and easy look at a few simple ways to help a friendship BLOSSOM into a full fledged romance, and figure out what he REALLY wants, all at the very same time. Curious to know more? Continue reading as we take a closer look below!
Allow yourself to be VULNERABLE (it really DOESN'T hurt, I promise!)
Take some chances, and open up a bit. You don't have to embarrass yourself, look desperate or even be overly aggressive to let someone know you are interested in taking things in a more interesting direction. The truth is, he'll most likely be flattered... and appreciative that you find him attractive in a romantic way. But don't do this in a haphazard way... or you'll find yourself TOO vulnerable, making "in the moment" choices you may BOTH regret later!
Relax Your Expectations
Don't push for answers. If you get back a response, either verbally or physically that you DON'T expect or anticipate, don't jump to conclusions or assumptions about what that may (or may not) mean. The truth is, some of MY best and most memorable relationships started slowly... and from friendships that seemed "locked in plutonic" before they ever bloomed into real romance. Remember, if he's worth getting to know in an intimate way... the BEST path to passion is through an evolving friendship as well.
Do NOT play games (or buy into the BULL)
Be honest, open and genuine about how you feel. There is no "time limit" to tell someone something that comes from the heart. There is no rule-book... or blueprint for taking a friendship to the next level. The truth is, if you stay honest, open, and don't obsess about the relationship, you'll find that doors open that you may NOT have realized were there... and amazing things can happen, once they do!